I Cheat, Therefore I Am

I am a self-confessed emotional cheat. My career in emotional cheating began by chance. I was entangled in a love triangle. It began a long-time ag ... read more

Some Thoughts on Cheating Which Is Not Gender Specific

Cheating has been around for centuries. Most often the person who was cheated on, chose to look the other way and let the relationship continue. Th ... read more

Moving Forward After Being Cheated On

Infidelity can happen to anybody. Unfortunately, not all of us are sure where we draw the line between harmless fun and cheating. Each of us has a ... read more

My Family Will Be Angry That I'm Staying With My Cheating Husband - How Do I Tell Them?

It's normal for people who love us to become outraged on our behalf when our spouse has cheated. Many of our family and friends are every bit as hu ... read more

My Husband Wants To Split Up Because I Used His Affair As A Weapon And Always Brought It Up

Many spouses initially attempt to stay together after one of them has an affair. I find that this always shocks people. There is an assumption that ... read more

If A Man Will Cheat During Your Engagement, Will He Cheat When You Are Married?

I sometimes hear from women who are engaged and who have found out that their fiancé has cheated on them. Sometimes, this happens at the bachelor p ... read more

I Think That My Spouse's Affair Was A Power Play

I sometimes hear from people who think that their spouse was not motivated by sex, by romance, or by emotions when they had an affair. Instead, the ... read more

My Spouse Says He Will Break Off The Affair If I Promise To Take Him Back

You would think that when your husband is caught cheating, he would realize that he is no position to negotiate. Ideally, he would panic at being c ... read more

I Feel Like My Husband Thinks He Should Get Off Easy After The Affair

Many wives who reach out to me do so because they are not getting the response that they hoped for by their cheating husbands. Sometimes, he is rel ... read more

Relationships: Why Would Someone Accuse Their Partner Of Cheating?

If one is in a relationship, they could begin to wonder what has happened to it. This could be a sign that it is no longer having the same effect o ... read more

He Doesn't Feel Sorry For Cheating - If I Leave Him, Would It Change His Mind?

If you were to ask a bunch of wives whose husbands have just been caught cheating what they most want, I suspect a good number of them would answer ... read more

How Would You Expect Someone To Act If They Suspect That Their Spouse Is Cheating?

Most of the time, those who I hear from are the faithful spouse who already has absolute proof that their spouse has been cheating. Sometimes, I he ... read more

Pool and Bean Boys Put Writer's Marriage on the Rocks

My wife is a flirt. Finish and Klaar! This is not a matter of opinion but a fact. Don't sound clever and tell me to divorce her, I won't - leave it ... read more

Is It Possible to Love and Trust Again After Being Cheated on?

The feeling you get when your partner, that special someone to you cheats can be summarized in two words... Betrayal and Hurt. It actually feels mo ... read more

How To Get Rid of the Other Woman

It is humiliating to find out that your husband is having an affair. It is also embarrassing and the complete ordeal takes your emotions through a ... read more