5 Tips to Attract Her on The First Date Instantly!

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The first date is suppose to be memorable for you and the girl of your dreams.

Therefore, this article will enrich you with 5 dating tips so that your first date will be enjoyable.

First, it should be adventurous and exciting for both of you. It should not be a boring affair. A typical guy will try to bring her to restaurant or watch movies together in order to please her. While this is not totally wrong, but by taking your date into these places might have shown that you are predictable. Remember, nowadays; the girls are not rigid anymore. Before you, she might have dated other guys as well. They might also have brought her to cinema and also dinner. Therefore, you have to try to bring unpredictability into the zone. For example, on the first date, try to surprise her by taking her to the nearest theme park. As much as possible, you have to try to take her for outdoor activities. The reason for taking her outdoor is that besides being unpredictable, your date will also be less formal. Going to cinema on the first date is a 'formality' for these girls; so try to be the opposite. I can guarantee that you will surprise her.

The second tip is that you have to try to change location at least once on the first date. Girls are normally bounded with memories. Therefore, the more you spend time together at different places; the more the memories will creep into her mind. Don't even think of ending your date unless you have change location at least once. For example, both of you meet at the fun fair. Once you have already enjoyed the fun fair together, don't send her back home immediately. Invite her for supper so that both of you can have a nice chat. By doing this, both of you have changed location and she definitely will remember that.

My third tip is against the conventional thinking of most guys. I would like to advice you not to treat her like a princess. However, at the same time you have to treat her with respect. Most guys did this mistake. They thought that by opening her doors, giving her flowers on the first date and treating her like princess will make her feel special. They pamper her with money and lavish gifts too. However, the truth is, the idea of treating her like a princess is already obsolete. We are now live in the millennium era, and the girls do not like to be treated like princess anymore. Today, girls are more independent and sociable. Another reason to stop treating her like a princess is that before you, there might be few other guys who did try the same thing to her. They treated her like a princess. So, when this happens, it is like a déjà-vu to her. Eventually, the effort that you have made in order to look extraordinary will only make you look ordinary.

At the same time, don't be rude to her on the first date. Be at your own personal best but at the same time try to be casual just like when your treated your female friends.

Next we move on the fourth tips. A lot of guys made this mistake. As a confident guy, you should never ask her whether she has boyfriend or not. A logic that you need to understand; if she has already got a boyfriend, do you think that she will be dating you? The answer to my question is very clear, she dated you because it is either she did not have a boyfriend or she is actually having trouble with her boyfriend. So, don't put emphasis on whether she's still available or not. By asking that question, you will only trigger an insecure personality in her eyes. Therefore, you have to relax and enjoy the moment spend with her.

Finally, you have to be good looking when you date her. Girls are more details in personal appearance compared to guys. You don't need to be totally handsome, but you need to be good looking. Good looking in the sense that you need to portray to her your best personal hygiene. These include of your selection of clothes, perfumes and shoes. Other than that, you should also ensure your excess hair should be trimmed. Finally, you should also enrich yourself with proven methods that will definitely attract her as you become a good looking guy.